20-02-2024, 08:42 AM
I think the most useful lesson I learnt from those dementia years was to not argue with my Mum no matter how fantastic the stories she told became. Those were reflections of her reality and challenging them, even carefully, only upset her by emphasising how unreal her world had become. Her reality was as real to her as mine was, or is to me.
Which might just be proof of the theory we really do create our own reality, lol.
Zwerty, I am not much good on lily identification, they are only a recent love in my garden. But I know I have had great advice and info from the NZ Bulbs people. They know their stuff, and might be able to tell you the name of your lovely lily. They have a farcebook page as well as a website...
I would welcome some rain up here, the hydrangeas are suffering despite my watering. We may have lost one of the oldest ones, it is looking increasingly sad. As I will be if I cannot grow those in a climate changed Auckland future. They are very close to my green heart...
Which might just be proof of the theory we really do create our own reality, lol.
Zwerty, I am not much good on lily identification, they are only a recent love in my garden. But I know I have had great advice and info from the NZ Bulbs people. They know their stuff, and might be able to tell you the name of your lovely lily. They have a farcebook page as well as a website...
I would welcome some rain up here, the hydrangeas are suffering despite my watering. We may have lost one of the oldest ones, it is looking increasingly sad. As I will be if I cannot grow those in a climate changed Auckland future. They are very close to my green heart...