You can never have enough...

[Oh_hunnihunni]

I think sticking to doing the things we can do ourselves is good for us, we can save the asking for help stuff for real emergencies. If it means we have to pull our horns in a bit, that's okay too, we can balance that with the satisfaction of independence lasting just a bit longer than it might have done otherwise.

And we all know someone who constantly inveigles others into doing things he or she can manage themselves.

Or am I just be too judgemental again?

Probably...