You can never have enough...

[popeye333]

It has helped me.

I told him not to respond straight away. That it took me two days to calm down and not be upset to be able to write it.
I know he wont like it, but I mentioned everything, including his drinking. And that I just cremated my last abuser and that I wont take it from anyone now.

Reassured him there is nothing wrong with his driving. That I've never let my own brothers drive my cars, yet he has driven mine.

Also told him he is lucky to not have Cam moaning about wanting to come home. And that he needs to find someone to give him some happiness. He wont stop loving Cam. But he needs some happiness in his life.

But that Im always here for him. As we all are.

I hope he takes the time to read it , a few times before he understands it. Its not a nasty letter. But its honest , and that we are all there for him.