You can never have enough...

[Oh_hunnihunni]

Reproduce yourself, two if the other parent has no other children, then stop - we have enough people, and parenting is expensive and these days, so much harder than it used to be. Once again I am aware how lucky a generation we were...

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It is very hard, and how we respond in such situations is up to us. I no longer put up with it, I simply edit those people out of my life. It is the easiest way for me. And these days I find I need fewer people around me, so it isn't a hard choice. I must have hermit genes, lol.

It is hard Hunni. 

And I thought long and hard about what to say. Through tears and anger. 

But Im not going to allow anyone to bite my head off like he did again. 

If I lose his friendship, then it is lost. I hope he doesn't stop being a friend. But he has to learn, we will talk about what we want. If that means multiple conversations happening at once, that's how it will be. 

He has to learn we have the right to talk about what we want to, as the same as he does. 

Time will tell. And I will tell everyone tomorrow as well. I know we have all had a lot of frustration with him lately.

Just protect yourself popeye. You have enough on your plate without taking on much more, no matter how much someone else might need you...