18-04-2025, 08:49 AM
(18-04-2025, 08:28 AM)Oh_hunnihunni Wrote: Yes, he is turning out to be a bit of a pain. A couple of weeks ago someone started banging on my door at some ungodly hour, someone who was ignored until they gave up that nonsense because if I take my contact lenses out I am blind and couldn't identify whoever was there anyway. We get weird people who think banging on our doors is amusing, so most of us just lock up and hunker down, but this time he was spotted under the outdoor lights by another neighbour so we know it was him. Quite a scary thing if you live alone and are the sensitive type, my neighbour was quite upset seeing she has one of those 'interesting' marriage histories and is a bit paranoid about security, understandably.
I might have to have words if this keeps happening.
I can imagine it would be very upsetting for the not so strong person.
Oddly right throughout our marriage, MrP never got up to the door at night, I had to do it. He never got rid of creepy crawlies I had to do it.
So At lest now Im strong enough to cope with it... And Im not scared to ring the police either lol..
Makes you wonder if they should be vetting people that move into communal type living situations..
I know the bad driving guy I mentioned before was a pain in the neck to all the women at the flats.. thought he was gods gift but you would have to be desperate to be in his company. lol

