12-07-2025, 09:41 AM
Morning everyone
Madam is happy. The sun is shining in the bedroom. I wont see much of her while its out.
Being the carer is harder on your system than you think. I know I had people tell me and I brushed it off, but it is. I always went to MrP's drs appointments cos he always lied.. He started coming to mine as I got deafer, one thing that Never failed him was his ears lol. And it also meant he knew what the Dr said and that I wasn't lying.
Ill never forget my GP siting there crying with me when I was soo worn down from looking after MrP and my mother. he said I needed 2 weeks away from them. I said that wouldn't work Id be worried as to which one would be alive when I got home. he said 2 days? I said nope but I could leave them for a day and I did. I went shopping, met up with a friend for lunch which wasn't planned we just happened to be a couple of doors away from each other.
Another time I came out of the super clinic with a warning from the Cardiologist that I needed to put my health first or I wouldn't be there for them. I told them straight up and the shocked looks on their faces proved I got the point home. not that Much changed.
I know your garden is your solace Kiwimade, just be careful.
I had a very lazy day yesterday, so the dishes are still waiting but they will be done before the games today. Was Fannys fault she rang just as I was getting up to do them.
One should not be wide awake at 1-20 am, hence the late start today.. oops.
Bright clothes doo lift your spirits which is why I hardly ever wore black.. Now its always the main colour in the shops.
Have a wonderful day everyone
Madam is happy. The sun is shining in the bedroom. I wont see much of her while its out.
Being the carer is harder on your system than you think. I know I had people tell me and I brushed it off, but it is. I always went to MrP's drs appointments cos he always lied.. He started coming to mine as I got deafer, one thing that Never failed him was his ears lol. And it also meant he knew what the Dr said and that I wasn't lying.
Ill never forget my GP siting there crying with me when I was soo worn down from looking after MrP and my mother. he said I needed 2 weeks away from them. I said that wouldn't work Id be worried as to which one would be alive when I got home. he said 2 days? I said nope but I could leave them for a day and I did. I went shopping, met up with a friend for lunch which wasn't planned we just happened to be a couple of doors away from each other.
Another time I came out of the super clinic with a warning from the Cardiologist that I needed to put my health first or I wouldn't be there for them. I told them straight up and the shocked looks on their faces proved I got the point home. not that Much changed.
I know your garden is your solace Kiwimade, just be careful.
I had a very lazy day yesterday, so the dishes are still waiting but they will be done before the games today. Was Fannys fault she rang just as I was getting up to do them.
One should not be wide awake at 1-20 am, hence the late start today.. oops.
Bright clothes doo lift your spirits which is why I hardly ever wore black.. Now its always the main colour in the shops.
Have a wonderful day everyone
They told me I couldn't, so I did.!!