26-09-2025, 08:47 AM
(This post was last modified: 26-09-2025, 08:51 AM by Oh_hunnihunni.)
I have been thinking about grief KM, and the way it has many aspects, not all of which are negative. Little silver linings perhaps. One of them is the way we sometimes have time to process the hardest knowledge and put that to good use. As my friend Ali said when she got that awful news, 'I'm not dying today, so...' And she put that time to such good use, we had a lot of fun in those days, and a lot of really good conversations. Good memories are such wonderful things to take with us and to keep.
So that is what I wish for you and Mr KM, and all those you love, as much time as possible and the memories that can be made with it.
About front loaders - raise them up. Filling, emptying and cleaning is a pain if they are on the floor, get them put on a solid raised plinth to save your back. And make sure they are fixed to it, they vibrate and walk if loaded badly. I had to fight our landlords for that little extra, but boy it makes using the beasts so much easier for all of us, frail and able bodied.
So that is what I wish for you and Mr KM, and all those you love, as much time as possible and the memories that can be made with it.
About front loaders - raise them up. Filling, emptying and cleaning is a pain if they are on the floor, get them put on a solid raised plinth to save your back. And make sure they are fixed to it, they vibrate and walk if loaded badly. I had to fight our landlords for that little extra, but boy it makes using the beasts so much easier for all of us, frail and able bodied.