26-09-2025, 09:33 AM
Thanks everyone 
And yes, you are so right, OHH. Time is so precious, especially when it is short. We're hoping for the best outcome but planning for the worst. Even if it is the best, sooner or later the worst will be here anyway. We've always talked about what each of us will do when the time comes, I think that is part of having a decent age gap between us. This morning, we have talked about coffins. And he wants a flatpack one like his sister had and wants us to build it together. We built his sister's coffin together 
And I will ask his niece's wife if she can do her fabulous art work on it. OMG you have to see her paintings, you would swear they were photos. Hopefully we are jumping the gun but as I said, sooner or later he will need it. If he doesn't this time round, it can stay in the garage until he does.
And yes, you are so right, OHH. Time is so precious, especially when it is short. We're hoping for the best outcome but planning for the worst. Even if it is the best, sooner or later the worst will be here anyway. We've always talked about what each of us will do when the time comes, I think that is part of having a decent age gap between us. This morning, we have talked about coffins. And he wants a flatpack one like his sister had and wants us to build it together. We built his sister's coffin together And I will ask his niece's wife if she can do her fabulous art work on it. OMG you have to see her paintings, you would swear they were photos. Hopefully we are jumping the gun but as I said, sooner or later he will need it. If he doesn't this time round, it can stay in the garage until he does.
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