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morning ladies   Boy, we've had/having some rain!  It was torrential overnight.

Yesterday MrK had his disability assessment done, and nope, he's not coming home.  We are both devastated by it but accept he is in the best place for his care as there is no way I can do what the nurses do at home.  Even with help, our home isn't geared up for all the equipment he will need.  Today I will sort out our finances, once that is done and I know what's what, I will feel happier and stronger.  I spent most of yesterday in tears which didn't help MrK much.  He feels guilty enough without feeling this is all his fault.  I keep telling him it isn't, it could just as easily have been me.  My phone was going pretty much nonstop from the time I put it on the family group chat and FB for my family and friends.  Had to charge my phone twice lol.  I was texting my best friend and our son phoned.  My friend had found him on FB and told him 'phone your mum!' lol.  Our son is very grounding and puts things back into perspective, just the person I needed at the time.

I have a list as long as your arm to get through over the next few days.  There will be some satisfaction in ticking them off though. 

Thanks for your support, everyone. Have a good one

I'm very sorry to learn this KM.   Good luck as you work through your lists.  I 'm a great believer in lists; not just the satisfaction of crossing items off ,but also a feeling of security when you've made a list with everything you need to do on it.   And sometimes even the task of making a list will help with decision-making.