My sexual orientation.

[The BDI]

They aren't requiring you to do that though. It isn't compulsory.

'Don't look, Ethel!' if it offends you. Looking is under your control, not theirs, no matter how loud they yell...

And that's where we differ.... the " look at moi look at moi" is loud and public, and as I've mentioned before almost compulsory in certain occupations. 
Again I ask ... if people are not interested in the sexuality of the av white male (or female)... why should the anybody be at all interested in theirs..