Getting older...and living alone

[Lilith7]

That was it, floatation tank!
That sounds like a good solution Deecee.

My daughter and I have always been dreadful worriers, but my youngest son never worries, no matter what happens.  He gave me a lot of food for thought when he said to me one day:

'You and sister worry about what might happen because you're trying to anticipate and solve problems before they happen.  So often they never happen and you've wasted all that worry.  Just wait until the problem arises, and then solve it.  You'll save yourself a lot of worry!'

You know what, he's so right!

Exactly - he's not wrong about that.