My sexual orientation.

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They aren't requiring you to do that though. It isn't compulsory.

'Don't look, Ethel!' if it offends you. Looking is under your control, not theirs, no matter how loud they yell...

And that's where we differ.... the " look at moi look at moi" is loud and public, and as I've mentioned before almost compulsory in certain occupations. 
Again I ask ... if people are not interested in the sexuality of the av white male (or female)... why should the anybody be at all interested in theirs..

I would actually suggest you obtained your "people are not interested in the sexuality of the av white male (or female)" evidence you're using under false pretences with a leading question in your OP, and the number of responses are definitely not statistically significant,  so it really doesn't follow that nobody should "be at all interested in theirs" - I imagine a significant number of the LGBTQIA community are interested for starters.

There are self centered, 'look at moi' types in all aspects of society that we need to tolerate or ignore, not just LGBTQIA.  Social media is full of them - I can't really see why you are singling out the LGBTQIA community...