12-01-2023, 01:41 PM
Hunny - it’s hard when somebody dies who has suffered - you know you will miss them forever but the pain and indignity is over and that’s a good thing
Hope vet has another drug Kiwimade to assist the Furry ones existing one -
Popeye - there is no doubt to assist with Mr Ps mental health he needs to get out on a regular basis even for a regular walk along the street in a wheel chair - but it doesn’t mean you have to do it - the Ukrainian Grandad joined the local Mens Shed here and they were out and about doing lots of different things for the old folks home - contact the Ministry for the Aged - they have their own website and ask for suggestions - is Mr P a returned serviceman or even Aged concern might have links to a men’s group who could take him out - you will find he won’t play up like he does for you - the home may have a bus a lot round here do and they regularly come sight seeing down our street - just having something to look forward to except those 4 walls will lift him and take a huge weight off your shoulders - one thing is for sure he needs to behave himself or he is going to run out of options so many places have cut their bed numbers - that’s just my tuppence worth - I nursed my husband with a lot of help and even if we only went to the end of the drive and back clutching his oxygen tank he just loved feeling the fresh air
Hope vet has another drug Kiwimade to assist the Furry ones existing one -
Popeye - there is no doubt to assist with Mr Ps mental health he needs to get out on a regular basis even for a regular walk along the street in a wheel chair - but it doesn’t mean you have to do it - the Ukrainian Grandad joined the local Mens Shed here and they were out and about doing lots of different things for the old folks home - contact the Ministry for the Aged - they have their own website and ask for suggestions - is Mr P a returned serviceman or even Aged concern might have links to a men’s group who could take him out - you will find he won’t play up like he does for you - the home may have a bus a lot round here do and they regularly come sight seeing down our street - just having something to look forward to except those 4 walls will lift him and take a huge weight off your shoulders - one thing is for sure he needs to behave himself or he is going to run out of options so many places have cut their bed numbers - that’s just my tuppence worth - I nursed my husband with a lot of help and even if we only went to the end of the drive and back clutching his oxygen tank he just loved feeling the fresh air